push pull dating theory
Journals Recent Entries Best Entries Best Journals Theoty List Search Journals. Community Links Members List. We aren't dating as yet. But already I'm falling. Previous boyfriends either chased me full on or became friends first. Thekry have push pull dating theory very long relationships and not much dating pukl. So I have no experience with this game. While the pull is making me want him I wanted him before he started this game the push is making me feel very insecure, so any compliments or nice things he does for me, I think is this sincere or just a game?
I hate the fact that he controls the flow of our interaction. I'm wondering does this stupid game stop once the guy gets you? It seems to be picking up pace. Can he possibly be datjng push pull dating theory me or do guys only use push pull for sex and casual relationships? I just feel distressed at the moment. I'm not into games and it's just doing my pll in.
Share Share this post on Digg Del. Could you be more descriptive? What kinds of things is he doing that push pull dating theory you away? It's quite possible tgeory just afraid of getting hurt. Might be something to discuss with him. As much as I pjll to admit it For me there is this fear that any woman that loves me will leave So as get it I get scared and push the woman away. I know it is not push pull dating theory. In my experience it does tend to die down once the relationship is stable, but there are things that seem to to trigger my pushing instinct.
The bad thing is Originally Posted by Lovesick Originally Posted by Devil Inside. My gf has been doing major datint on me for the last year. Not intentionally, but because she's been hurt and is afraid of getting hurt again. The irony is that I'm on the edge of walking out over this. For a long time we have push pull dating theory a hidden attraction which came out recently because of all the time we now spend around each other.
This is when the push pull nonsense started up. As soon as I respond to him wanting my attention, he withdraws his attention from me. I feel as if I'm being punished for liking him back. It makes a datiing of sense the reason he is like a skittish bird is because he has infact been hurt by women in the past. It's taken a long time fating him to let some of his wall down with me.
While he has opened himself up more, I sense he doesn't fully trust me. So where do I go from here? I'm understanding of his hurt and insecurities but I have feelings as well. I also don't feel I should have to own what other women have done. That's other women, it's not me. The big thing is I don't want him taking my patience and understanding as being a doormat. I had feelings for him a long time before this game. I fell for the person he is. You are right, I do need to get the control back.
Originally Posted by A O. That's a concern, the pysh concern here in fact. Further more, what you'll end pulll being attracted to is the game, not him. Push pull dating theory person who knows what they want and what they're willing to put up with is always in control. Then you should have walked away by now. If he's indeed playing a game, then walk push pull dating theory.