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California Highest education received: Recent grad, unemployed Relationship status: Not at all Sexual orientation: Heteroflexible How many no condom hook up partners have you had in your life including oral sex? How would you best classify this hookup e. Tell us about your PARTNER S. What did they look like?
How well did you know them, bergen dating norway you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him through Tinder. Mildly attractive, fit but not in the top rank of my matches. When we started talking it was pretty nondescript and bland, except that we shared an interest. Fwb, a relationship if it no condom hook up that way, or even just friends. Then he let the ball roll to me.
He was straightforward and not more attractive than me, so I felt I would be less intimidated. My greatest fear preceding the hookup was that he would turn out to be a dunderhead. What led to it? He came by, I was nervous but confident about my appeal. We sat down, started eating and I made conversation. We talked a little bit about ourselves while I dicked around on my laptop trying to find something to watch and I think we kind of clicked.
And like a casual guy. He started initiating some physical contact like getting closer to me, brushing his thumb against my arm. Eventually we started watching something and we were sitting right by each other and he placed his hand on my lap and started stroking my thigh, like real casual. I guess this is happening. What happened DURING the hookup?
What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Getting oral was interesting and kind of unexpected. I was just kind of quiet and breathed and had my hand in his hair. After a while he got up, maybe kissed me some more, and pulled his dick out. I was kind of impressed.
He has a good-looking dick and a good size. Later on he mentioned he was surprised by how tight I was. Like really tight, at first. There was a lot of kissing and the pain lessened, but No condom hook up found that when he went harder it kind of hurt in a no condom hook up way. Like it felt intense, but rather than feeling good, it was kind of hard to bear. Asides from the pain, it was more natural to me than I expected and it really weirded me out that he had my hands and feet tingling no condom hook up the whole time.
There were a lot of position changes but all with him on top. Eventually he came to a pause and he checked in on things. Found out this was really my first time. I gave positive feedback but also filled him in on some of the details and we talked about it. Like if we had sex more hopefully it would start to hurt less. I indicated I would be open to seeing him again. After we talked for a bit, we started kissing again and he fingered me for a while, and eventually we fucked some more.
We just chatted idly after that, like an hour or two, and eventually I mentioned that I had work to do. We kissed some more before he got up and he got hard again. I was wry about that. I walked him to the door. More kissing at the end, and he grabbed me closer to him. HE said sorry this time and left for real. I was pleased though, and after he left I wondered if it was too good to be true and if there was some sort of catch I was missing. Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner s?
The first round, I think he kind of just stopped out of concern for me. What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I felt like it was just kind of awkward to bring STIs up, maybe because when No condom hook up had asked for test results in the past, one or two Tinder guys acted offended. I was also on birth control. I got tested for 2 STIs and came back clean. Um, one of the following times we hooked up, I let him go bareback after cumming once.
Though I was still on birth control. What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was 21, physically frustrated at never having sex, and wanted to lose my sexless status. No guy friends, awful at talking to guys. Eventually I realized that was unhealthy and tried to ditch that thinking. But I still wanted to be a sexual person and explore that side of life while I was young and attractive.
Especially because there was a limited window of opportunity — my mom was coming down to live with me soon. I hooked up with this particular guy because I strongly felt my inhibitions about sex but he seemed like he would work for me. Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A little bit of beer. I opened one to eat with the food I bought but really my motivation was to help me get no condom hook up my jitters.
I offered him one as well, but no condom hook up turned it down. What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? How do you feel about them now? We started texting again, but to my disappointment the convo was as limited as ever. His responses were really mundane. But after we have sex I relax. The intimate sex and the date-like moments e. To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my sister and one other close friend.
The other friend was excited for me but also impressed. Prior to hooking up, I discussed with her, my sis and one other friend. I got some mixed feedback. People I knew in real life seemed to be dubious that I was emotionally equipped to go through with it. I guess they knew my inhibitions. The first friend thought all the prospects I entertained were going to be poor choices and skeevy. My sister supported my decisions but seemed resigned to the chances of disastrous experiences.
Do you regret this hookup? For the most part, no. And I have vulvar papillae that get itchy and irritated occasionally from all the friction and that makes me regret sometimes. What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Also getting confused over someone.
I learned from this hook-up that things can no condom hook up ideally for me, and I can be sexual and open with other people even if my friends doubt that about me. You have a hookup story to share?