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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. When meeting someone online, most people want to make sure the person in the profile picture is who they say they are and that they look like their datig in real life. I've heard of people investing their time, emotions and energy e-mailing potential dates for days, sometimes weeks, only to find messenber when yahoo messenger dating meet their online date in person that they don't look as attractive as their photograph or worse - they don't look anything like their picture.
We've already had discussions in this forum that looks DO matter in the initial dating phase. The obvious solution to the above yahoo messenger dating would be to Skype or cam via Yahoo Messenger with the person in question to see yahoo messenger dating in real time and yahoo messenger dating hear their voice. As easy as this solution is, some people still aren't yahoo messenger dating this for various reasons.
Some people don't own a cam yahoo messenger dating mic, some messehger refuse to go on cam and others trust that the yahoo messenger dating they're being sent are genuine. Have you ever Yahoo messenger dating or used Yahoo Messenger to cam with a potential date? If so, did you think they looked the same as their picture or better? Or did they look different than their photograph or worse? And if you've never done this before or prefer not to, why?
I use yahoo but for IM only. I am not a fan of webcamming. I do datihg in person right away though. Usually after a or 2 of messaging online. If after a week there is still no face to face meet. I ignore the person totally. It's coz, yes I've been catfished. I tried my new HD webcam in POF chat once, but aside from that I've never felt it was necessary to use since it's usually easy to spot the fakes yyahoo myspace angles.
Would rather meet in person sooner than later. You could find out what they look like in a yahoo messenger dating minute coffee date, no need to e-mail for "weeks and weeks" nor to webcam. If they are an hour or less away, just MEET and find out right away if there's anything there. Too many people, IMO, want some type of guarantee they're going to like the person before meeting.
What do you have to lose but 30 minutes? It doesn't obligate you to anything. I never yahoo messenger dating chat or webcam or anything else before meeting when doing online dating, if they asked I just said I don't do chat. When I met my now bf, he sent me an e-mail saying "do you want to meet? He lived 15 minutes away, so I said okay, we met for drinks and messengef we are over 2 years together.
Cyber space is for meeting people, not getting to know them, it really doesn't have to be as complicated as people make it. Last edited by ocnjgirl; at Originally Posted by ocnjgirl. This is true and a very smart thing for someone to do. But, I guess I should've been more specific in my post. I more or less meant if the two people in question were too far away to just hop in their car to at the nearest Starbucks.
Unless people only e-mail or chat with other people within their locality, a lot of people unexpectedly happen upon someone that they like in a forum or dating site that, to their disappointment, lives hours away or resides hundreds of miles away from them. Well that makes sense, although I would still be very cautious about establishing a false sense of relationship before meeting, so don't talk too much in that vein, and make sure you're looking for local people to date while you're talking with that person.
I don't think it much matters what chat site, it's something you can decide individually as you are speaking with someone, it doesn't have to be affiliated with the dating site. I used to talk to people long distance, but after a couple of LD relationships realized I wanted someone nearby, there's nothing like having messengfr to go get a hug from on your way home from a crappy day temptation dating opzeggen work, or who will evacuate with you during a storm as I had to for Sandy so decided to just focus on local.
I yahoo messenger dating so far messengr to take a temp job in Texas once for 6 months, to see how it worked with a guy I was dating there, but realized I really don't want to leave my home, family and friends here.